Dare 2 Feel

In my twenties, I had just come out of a disastrous youthful relationship and felt that on my first footing out into the world as a young adult, I had stumbled miserably. I was feeling very low, and wondered if I’d ever find my “true love” as I so wanted to. I had a ring [...]

Stage One is Infancy:
In Infancy, I am dependent on others for my emotional energy.
I am a small fish in a small pond.
Stage Two is Adolescence:
In Adolescence, I seek independence.
I want to be a large fish in a small pond.
Stage Three is Adulthoood:
In Adulthood, I settle-down in the comfort and security of co-dependent relationships.
I have become a small fish [...]

Shock is diagnosed as a medical condition that is the result of a Trauma.
Shock is the manifestation of an unexpected negative occurrence as a symptom in our physical body.
The negative shock is a huge wave of unexpected emotional energy that the body is unable to cope with.
It is not the shock that is negative but the trauma [...]

When something turns up unexpectedly it is either a shock or a surprise.
A shock is an occurrence that is negative and unexpected .
When what turns up unexpectedly is received positively, it is seen as a surprise.
Shocks and surprises do not happen by accident.
Nothing happens by accident.
What I see as an accidental shock is a surprise from [...]

I brought my sketchbook to my son’s Cub Scout Pinewood Derby. This is when small wooden race cars (made by the scouts) are placed on the top of a sloping track, and speed down the track under the finish line. It all happens in a matter of seconds, and nobody really knows I don’t think [...]

Energy manifests in 3 different ways:
Energy manifests Physically as:

The Magnitude of Gravity – its attraction
The Force of Magnetism    – its direction
The Potential of Electricity- its ability

Energy manifests mentally as:

The Magnitude of my Power - my attraction
The Force of my Authority    - my direction
The Potential of my Ability    - my ability

Energy manifests Emotionally as:

The Magnitude of Love - the power [...]

When I am being nervous, I am connecting to my power without being in alignment with my authority.
In alignment with my authority, I am excited, not nervous.
Being nervous is the result of a worry, a fear, or a false belief.
Nerves turn my power negative and allow me to realise the fear that I believe will [...]

Appreciation is a Divine Attainment.
Appreciation is the attainment of Spiritual Growth.
Appreciation is also the vehicle through which I attain spiritual growth.
As I affirm and attest my appreciation of what is currently appearing in my reality, I put more of that into my future and I allow what I already have to appreciate and to grow.
As [...]

“Some nights are fairy nights
Before you go to bed
You hear their darling music
go chiming in your head;
You look into the garden,
and through the misty grey
You see the trees all waiting
in a breathless kind of way.
All the stars are smiling;
they know that very soon
The fairies will come singing
from the land behind the moon.”
from SOMETIMES, a poem [...]

Being Appreciated is an emotional need.
I need to be appreciated by other people for what I do for them or for what I give to them.
When other people appreciate what I do for them, they meet my need for emotional energy.
When other people do not appreciate what I do for them, it drains my emotional [...]